About

 I am a content creator focused on sharing how I see life, which has changed based on my life experiences. We grow and learn from our environment and everyone around us; I am no exception. From an early age, I knew I never fit in with my surroundings, and I made myself fit, which is what we learn to do. It was uncomfortable since I was compromising who I was to be what others wanted me to be. I always fought to show others my authentic self, but for some reason, others would judge me, criticize me, and encourage me to be like everyone else. With time, I learned that I did not have healthy boundaries, had issues knowing my worth, lacked self-esteem, and was an over-giver between a long list of other things. Yikes! I started working with myself, and part of that change was also choosing an environment and new relationships that better fit who I have become. Part of my transformation came with new ways of investing my time, creating healthy relationships, working with my feelings, and how I was living life. For me, social media was the biggest eye-opener. I saw many people who felt the same and shared their perspectives, and I learned how they had become better versions of their selves. Seeing other people's transformation validated what I had been trying to do for many years: showing others my authentic self. I read many books, listened to podcasts, and even followed people on social media, but it only clicked once it did. I still had much work to do then, but I finally found the key to what I needed to do. The key for me was self-love. When you love yourself, you respect yourself and understand your value. A chain of events occurs positively, but many things that might have been putting that extra weight will need to fall and be left behind, which is not easy. It is challenging, but for me, it is worth it. 

Don't get me wrong, I still have much work to do with myself, but I am the most balanced and happy I have felt in many years. I had to work a lot to get where I am. I want to help you find that balance in life, self-love, and happiness we all deserve by guiding you through my content. Your journey might be different from mine, but the core for me is still the same. You are the only one who can choose whether my content is helpful. Either way, it is okay. I hope you find your way to becoming the best version of yourself. You deserve to feel happy, balanced, successful, joyful, excited, and loved. I need to be responsible and mention that I must let myself feel other emotions like sadness, anger, etc. It is part of the journey to feel emotions like that, too. The hard part is learning what we do with them and how we can balance ourselves when going through that emotion. Things I have learned and am still working on are self-regulating myself, knowing what started that emotion, what I can learn from it, allowing myself to feel it, and letting it go healthily for myself and others. 

My work comes from a genuine place full of love and good intentions toward others, but I am still human, and I make mistakes and don't know everything. We are all learning through our journey. The most beautiful thing is that others like you and me are out there! We just need to find each other. Thank you for reading, and I hope you enjoy my content! :)